Monday, May 31, 2010

Not even by force, I could deflower her

Hi Beatrice,
I hope you can help me my friend. I am 17 years old and she 16th It is still a virgin, I had it before.
And now two months we are together, we wanted to deflower them together last weekend, but it did not work.
I wanted to take my penis in her, but it was not because you probably still too narrow. Then we tried it with lube, but I did not get him down clean.
And by force, it hurt her too. And it still has not worked.
Is my penis too big? (19cm). And what can we do? And I have also previously fingered with a finger.
Nameless (17)
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Hi nameless,
ach du Schreck ...! "Then we tried it with lube, but I did not get him down clean. And by force, it hurt her too. And it still has not worked. "
Jesus, what are you doing??
"I did not get imprinted" sounds even violent - how bad that must have been then, when you have it then tries to use force "!?
My dear, that will not do. If one has sex with a girl, or will have, should NEVER be violence in the game, unless you do SM games. The penis must go in actually relatively easy, there may only be a small initial resistance - otherwise is not the body of the girl so far. It may be that she is not ready for sex and it just does, because you drängelst. It may be that ye have not yet on it, bring it to really excited. Actually, a woman must be so excited that her vagina your penis will literally ". That is, in great excitement, the vagina is not only soft and stretchy, but also "open" and a bit greedy. Even with virgins.
If your friend does not reach this level of excitement, then you have the first traffic a bit put off and you still take quite a lot of time to explore together what makes your girlfriend in great excitement. It may well be that as a prelude then once an hour or two takes to complete. But with violence's now no time. If one tries to deflower a girl by force, then the only causes that result in her brain and her body the link "Sex = painful, unpleasant, is on me not respected" and then they tried very long to avoid sex, as it gets.
It may be that this is already the case, after your violent action. I hope not, for the poor girl.
A lot of tips on "Prelude" and vaginal pain can be found on www.frag-beatrice.de and in my book, "you still moan, or do you come already."
Greetings from
Beatrice Poschenrieder
P.S. The length of your penis plays little role, but the volume.
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